It is the black family that is the foundation for our community. Until we can forgive each other and begin to hold up a new standard for how we should be, we are destined for continued failure. We have the power to create our own greatness.

In order to create this family, young men must seek God and take your rightful place. You are kings, but only God is The KING. In other-words, without Him you are nothing, but with Him you are everything!

Understand that God ordained marriage and it is a key to building a healthy family and a healthy community. The key to a healthy marriage is to find a mate that loves God. She won't look like everyone else, nor will she be swayed by the evils and temptation. Her beauty comes from within and radiates from without. Her character is not between her thighs and her hips, but between her head and her heart. There is just something about her that you won't be able get away from, but that very same thing will cause you to come up (grow up) in order to be with her. You must stand correct!

She will love you in-spite of yourself, she will be patient, helpful (tell you the truth even though you can't stand to hear it-without cussing and fussing at you)and will see you through God's eyes. She is virtuous in the sense the she has a pure heart.

But you will never know the key to her heart unless you seek God. You will never know how to communicate with her unless you speak to her with uplifting words of love, encouragement and understanding (not calling her anything BUT her name)You must be patient and what you want from her, you must be willing to give to her first. You are the head! If you don't seek God for her and settle for the lust of the eye, you will regret it everyday of your life.